tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998643064936955506.post8973697401359145697..comments2023-03-27T05:37:53.127-07:00Comments on The Gabica's: Important DatesThe Gabica'shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16354528514146049539noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998643064936955506.post-84575291488580477212010-04-12T15:45:45.979-07:002010-04-12T15:45:45.979-07:00That is totally how it is! And you keep thinking, ...That is totally how it is! And you keep thinking, "This can happen again!" It is enough to drive me insaine!The Gabica'shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16354528514146049539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998643064936955506.post-56202737934360101682010-04-10T20:48:19.800-07:002010-04-10T20:48:19.800-07:00Hi Jill~
I struggle with guilt too. Mine comes i...Hi Jill~<br /><br />I struggle with guilt too. Mine comes in the question of "Did I do something, or eat something or not do something that caused our little boy to have anencephaly?" My head knows that I didn't but my heart is not so easy to follow.<br /><br />I hope your heart is finding peace....Joannathedonahues7@verizon.nethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04786119673237308904noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998643064936955506.post-33706087483296957942010-03-18T07:18:47.161-07:002010-03-18T07:18:47.161-07:00Hi Jill, We haven't met, but I have thought a...Hi Jill, We haven't met, but I have thought about you often and had you in my prayers. I am a member of the HALO group and so wish that when you feel okay with it, that you would join us for our meetings. We would absolutely love to have you. Today would be my son Nicolas' first birthday. It has been the hardest but one of the greatest years of my life. I have learned so much and have grown so much closer to my Savior. I agree with your cousin about Satan and his weapons. When I first lost my son I didn't recognize what he was doing, but I do now and I dismiss him rather quickly. I decided that he wouldn't have any influence on me today, that I was going to be happy and grateful for all that Nicolas brought to my life. I have also recognized that when I can find someone to do something for, that it really helps me. That is my plan today, in honor of my son. I would love to see a picture of your sweet angel's headstone. I will continue to pray for you and hope to see you soon. We would love to visit with you.Elisha Joneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05617040192428441521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998643064936955506.post-17606019934964988242010-03-16T15:43:53.086-07:002010-03-16T15:43:53.086-07:00Thanks Adrienne. I totally agree with you about Sa...Thanks Adrienne. I totally agree with you about Satan using guilt as his main weapon against parents. It is crazy what happens to you when you become a parent. When you don't have kids, you see how weird parents are about things and then you become one and are just as weird!The Gabica'shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16354528514146049539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998643064936955506.post-965235912217573702010-03-16T13:49:33.428-07:002010-03-16T13:49:33.428-07:00Oh Jillybean, my heart just aches for you guys. I...Oh Jillybean, my heart just aches for you guys. I can not even comprehend what you are going through. I've decided that dealing with guilt is a big part of being a mom. (I call it Mom Guilt.) I think it is one of Satan's best weapons against parents, especially moms. Don't feel guilty! I'm amazed by all the wonderful ways that you and Mark have celebrated your sweet Isabel's life. You are a wonderful mom!!!adriennehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16705109162656944845noreply@blogger.com